Thursday, June 19, 2025

Training A Teenager

If you are sending your teenage boy to a personal trainer /strength coach and the coach is having your kid perform "gimmicky" exercises (Standing on a ball, endless rotator cuff exercises, walking around with dumbells over their heads, ladder drills, a bunch of machine work, prelifting stretching), take your kid and leave. You don't need all that bullshit. There is only so much time with the kid. Get the most bang for your buck. No foam rolling and a bunch of useless shit. "A" skips are not the proper warmup for a squat. Just have the lifter do light squats to warm up for the squat. Ridiculous all these damn warmups! Be specific to the activity you are going to perform. 

It's relatively simple to train a beginning lifter:

Teach them impeccable form in all the lifts that are in the program.

Include these exercises in the program: Squats, Deadlifts, Press, Bench Press, Bent rows. Assistance exercises can include pushups, dips (not too deep), chins, lateral raises, one arm rows, and curls and various dumbell presses. There are more than can be substituted for those lifts, but if the kid just did those lifts, they would be fine. In fact, the kid could get away with not doing a bunch of assistance work or maybe not at all, but I include it because:  A) I think the assistance lifts make the big lifts stronger B) It makes the kid bigger (bodyweight) C)It makes them look good.  That last one may give some pause, but if you understand the psyche of a young lifter, and I have trained a mess of them, they want to have big muscles. Also, kids who want to get big, love that pumped up feeling, hence the higher reps on some assistance work.

I have an online client, 14 year old kid that I am training. In 6 months, he has gained 35 pounds of bodyweight. His squat and bench and deadlift have gone up 70, 40 and 60 pounds, respectfully.  He never misses a session. He sends me videos of all his top lifts, then makes adjustments that I recommend. I trained him without using percentages at first, and then when he had been with me 6-8 weeks or so, we did a one rep max in the squat, bench and deadlift. After that, I used percentages of his one rep max to cycle his training. Most all of the big lifts are 2-5 reps. After around rep number 5, form starts to break down. Always better to perform ten sets of three versus three sets of ten. On the assistance exercises, he should pyramid up until the last set is hard but form is kept.


Here is one week of his exact program:

Day 1

press- easy, pause at the top 3x5 
bench press 50x8 60x5 70x5 75x3 80x3 85x3 90x3 70x9 (percentages of one rep max)
db incline 3x6 heavier than last week on last set
bb shrugs 3x6
standing bb press 3x8 
20 dips, 20 pushups
triceps pushdowns or extensions 3x15


Day 2
squats 50x5 60x5 70x5 75 4x5 heavier next week, make these perfect, good set up.  (percentages of one rep max)
goblets 3x8
20 chins
cable rows 3x8
bent rows 3x8
ez curls 3x20
db curls 2x20


Day 3
bench 50x8 60x8 70x5 75 3x5 (percentages of one rep max)
seated db press 4x6
db bench  8 6 4 2  heavier than last week on last set
laterals 3x15
50 pushups 
 incline flies, 3x12 (not too deep and light)
triceps ext 3x15
20 dips


day 4
squats 60x5 70 2x5 (percentages of one rep max)
deadlifts- 50x5 60x5 70x5 75 6x3 heavier next week. perfect set up. (percentages of one rep max)
bent rows 4x6
support rows 3x12
20 chins
db curls 3x12
hammer curls 2x15

In addition, if he's getting ready for sports, he should play basketball, learn Muay Thai, and sprint some. Add a few box jumps, too. 

 Eat  lots of grass fed ground beef (at least twice a day), any meat, rice, potatoes, fruit, milk.

No gimmicks, just simple gut busting work that some shy away from. But it is what it takes to get big and strong and athletic and fast. It's simple but not easy.

All About Being a Lifer

What's a Lifer? Someone who isn't in to something for just a day, a month, a year...it's for life. Whether its training or your family or your job...it doesn't matter. You work at it, you build on it, you see the big picture . You don't miss workouts because it means something to you. You are like a Shakespearean actor- no matter what is going on in your life, you block it out when it's time to train. You walk into the weight room and all else disappears. Worry about it later.